“If you do not feel yourself growing in your relationship, your life broadening and deepening, If it isn’t a perpetual tonic to you, you have not found your ideal partner.” ~Orison Swett Marden

I found this quote today and realized it fit where I am at in my life; that in between place where you think you want someone but you’re not sure.  And is there an ideal partner out there for us????  I wonder.  I thought I had it.  I guess I didn’t.

As a football fan, I do miss sharing the games with him.  That was always fun.  So I sat here tonight watching the Packers almost win.  I screamed and yelled and said a few obscenities at the refs.  I watched alone and bantered with my Facebook friends who are also football fans.  That’s when I wish I had someone to share my life with.

I think I’ve spent the last year learning what my ideal partner would be like or what I’d like him to be like. This is why we shouldn’t rush into other relationships so fast.  We have to take the time to figure out what didn’t work in the last one and look at who we are to see what changes we need to make; otherwise we are not going to grow and be able to embrace the next level of our journey.

Not sure if my ideal partner is out there, but if he is, he better love football.  LOL

Don’t settle!

Keep moving forward,

Kimberly Rae