As a teacher, I like to share with my students lessons in life. Lessons they can take with them and hopefully remember the rest of their life. I have past students who have found me and brought up some of those lessons that I shared with them. They have thanked me for the things I taught them and my positive outlook on life. After 29 years in the classroom, I haven’t stopped sharing.
Let me share with you some of the lessons I have shared over time:
To stay positive in life, you need to surround yourself with positive people. Get rid of the toxic friends that only bring you down. Sometimes “cleaning out your closet” so to speak, is the first step to bringing on that daily smile. I always say, what you give you get, what you sow, you reap, and what goes around comes around. My students understand what that means. When you’re hurting, depressed, or just confused about life, I know this isn’t always easy. The negativism coming forth verbally and non verbally from our pain is enough to keep people away. Laughter is always the best medicine. I use it in my classroom and with friends. I love to laugh; it lifts the spirits and soothes the soul. I even laugh at myself:)
Feeling Worthy. We are all worthy of great things in our life; a great job, great friendships, great relationships, Joy, peace, and the list goes on. We accept the things in life we feel we deserve. If you feel you don’t deserve much then that is what you get. Look at the path you are on now. Are you getting all you deserve? Or are you stuck in a job, or a relationship that isn’t worthy of who you really are? Again, don’t let those negative people in your life keep you from a positive self-worth.
Trying to be perfect: Who is perfect? If we continue to strive for that we lose sight of the journey and the great things that are happening along the way. You don’t have to be perfect or anywhere near it to have any self-worth. We are hard on ourselves. But don’t judge. Learn from your mistakes, your stumbles, and trips; forgive yourself and forgive others and move on:)
Be thankful. I say this many times in my classroom and with people I know and meet. I look at what the Lord has given me and put in front of me and I am thankful everyday. And yes, sometimes he has to hit me over the head with a brick to hear him and to learn from what is right in front of me, but I do get it. Listen. We don’t always appreciate what we have and just want more or something different. Then, after it is too late, we realize we had the good thing all along. Emotional greed and financial greed really don’t get us anywhere. Be thankful for what you have. The littlest things can bring you joy if you take the time to see it.
When I am having a day that isn’t so great, I have to ask myself, “What am I missing? What am I not seeing?” We can’t focus our energies on our pain or what someone said or didn’t say. That is when the negativity creeps in and then it takes over and we are miserable. Is it worth it? Let it go. Be happy; smile, laugh, and bring joy to others. Pretty soon, you’ll be smiling on the inside:)
“The optimist already sees the scar over the wound; the pessimist still sees the wound underneath the scar. ~Ernst Schroder
Stay positive and as always ~ Keep hiking to the top!