What is keeping you from moving forward with your life? A question we all need to ask ourselves from time to time. Many times we think we are on our way when the quick sand of life keeps dragging us down and we don’t even know it. And then we wonder why nothing seems to be going right, you’ve lost your focus, your partner leaves you, and life just seems pretty crappy.
We can’t blame others for our messed up reality. We played a part in there somewhere. The difficult part is looking deep within to find out what YOUR part was.
What’s holding you back? It could be small piece you haven’t dealt with or it could be a series of things that you’ve just let go in hopes that it would all go away.
Family is important and when we lose that connection to some of our family our life does suffer. We say it doesn’t, we blame them, they just don’t get it…. I could go on, couldn’t I? But that’s a big chunk of who we are. Pretending they don’t exist or shutting them out of our life is making our life that much better???? I think not.
The hardest part is looking in the mirror, is forgiving, saying your are sorry; all of it. No one said living your life was going to be a piece of cake. I am a firm believer that we need to heal the hurt inside of us before we can truly move on. Is there someone in your life that you need to reconnect with? Say your sorry to? or Forgive? Sometimes you just need to let things go in order to reconnect. Get that part of you that is lost, back. Don’t say, “It’s not a big deal.” or “He/She won’t listen to me.” How do you know? They may be hoping you take the first step. Everything is worth one try at least.
As always, keep hiking to the top!