Losing friends through a difficult time in your life is never easy. I know, I lost a few good friends along my healing journey. I believe they just were not able to listen to my hurt and pain any longer. They had to do what they needed to do to continue on their journey in life. And that has to be okay. We all need to take care of who we are. I know it took me a long time to get over my past relationship. But when you make that many memories with someone, it just doesn’t go away overnight.
I still miss them. There are times I wish I could just call them up and share some of my exciting growth news since I am in a great place in my life. But I can’t and I won’t. I respect their decision and what they had to do for themselves. They did help me a lot, especially during some of my roughest hours. They played a part in my healing and now I must let them go.
I am on a new journey now and we will make new friends. It’s all part of the growth that takes place as we move on with our life. We have to let some things go in order to bring on the new. For some, the journey has just begun. Enjoy all that it brings:)
Keep hiking to the top,
2 thoughts on “Letting Them Go…”
I know how you feel I lost a few friends over the years and the one I still missed and cry is my best friend Lucy she died in 1982 a few months before my wedding.
I have new friends and a best friend but Lucy will stay in my heart forever….
There are some people that cross our path in life that will always have a special place in our hearts and will never leave us. Lucy will always be with you 🙂