It is officially November, Halloween has come and gone, my uncarved pumpkins remain outside my door to remind me that it is Fall, and the Christmas movies have begun to show up on the various channels that engulf our T.V’s. And yes… I am still single. I am not saying that as if it is a bad thing. I thoroughly enjoy my life and am very happy. But there is still the idea of a man; someone to share my already happy life with:)
So many people have asked me, “What are you looking for?” “What do you want?”
I always thought I knew exactly what I wanted in a relationship, but after talking with a long-lost friend from college, I have reassessed my wants. I don’t like using the word “wants” It’s more like a feeling. It is the way I perceive love. Some may say I am a hopeless romantic, (I am) and my take on love is only in fairy tales. But, I do not agree.
My take on a TRUE LOVE:
I want love, not the comfortable, safe kind. I want extraordinary, passionate, everything is in sync love. Where their touch electrifies my soul. When he touches my hand, my whole body quivers. Where the simplest of gestures bring a smile to my face. When what I want most in the world, (and this is it,) adds to my happiness. Love isn’t a fairy tale if it’s TRUE.
So, I will keep praying,and keep the faith, that God has someone like this for me. I know he is out there. He just hasn’t found me yet:)
My words of wisdom for today: Hold out for what you truly want in life. Don’t settle. Love yourself first, so you can give that true love to someone else:)
Be happy in life!!
Keep hiking to the top!